There are 2 Darfari sets. One cloth and one light. Cloth have all parts except hands, male and female look completly diffrent. If you dont like the parrot female pants i would probably go for some rags/ jungle style from early Tortage. Check trader for social gear or white cloth gear.
For full Darfari set farm the 2 camps in Purple Lotus Swamp with Kushites lvl 45-50.