This!
An eyeopener for me was some 4 years ago when a barb (7) filetted me wearing just a loincloth and using a rotted oar
I could give up or get better
I decided to hang in there and last time I met the barb, I paid back with interest.
Best thing was afterwards he sent me a tell saying he feared he had unleashed a monster.
Gear is helpfull but skills and a strategic mind will carry the day.
Also ignore function for the trolls who get their kicks from belittling others helps