This is an ex parrot. Most who called themselves "pvpers" were a bunch of whiny crybabies who'd take the easiest way to "win" no matter how stupid/boring it was, which is how Bori degenerated into such a giant fail (original idea was pretty cool, FC just didn't imagine how deep lamerness ran in the alledged pvpers). They were a waste of bandwidth and it's a good thing they left far as I care. Besides real pvpers would be playing true pvp games anyway (fighting games, fps, rts, dotaclones...), the entire point of the traditional MMO is to be a time sink that rewards people with more free time.
Could it be some other way? Yes. Theoretically FC could revamp whole game again and create a new set of stats that only work against other players, implement a full seperation between items with 0 in all pvp stats and others with 0 in all pve stats, not to mention tweak every class and their feats/abilities/aa. There are some games that actually have this total seperation. But that's never gonna happen to AoC, it's too late now.