You may not enjoy PvP, but many of used to and still do..and no, pvp servers did not die because of ganking or exploiting, although I agree with you slightly about customer support. They simply had too many servers than needed at launch. When Doomsayer was merged into Tyranny it was basically a super-server for the better of 2 years until they started making very unpopular pvp changes and started to move to the almost entirely exclusive PvE game you enjoy now. As you run off pvpers and replace them with mainly casual pvers, of course the pvp servers die off because those casual players choose not to play on them. That does not mean they failed in themselves, they simply marketed towards a different kind of demographic where eventually they would fail because of limited demand amongst new players and almost reprehensible changes that forced pure pvpers out of the game. Most anyone who played between 2008-10 did so for pvp, not pve. PvE in this game was actually extremely dull until the advent of t3 raiding.
Also, there is not any female genitalia in the game, only Breasts. Everyone's nasties are covered.