i don't believe there is a absolute solution to this its more damned if you do and damned if you don't, if it became to happy and friendly i and the majority of pvper would just leave but then again its not like there is a massive influx of newbs anyways so i dont really see a problem i rarely see a new pvper that quits the game because of pvp alone most just go back to pve or whatever plenty of other problems ingame before this becomes a issue